{"id":800,"date":"2016-06-18T17:21:41","date_gmt":"2016-06-18T17:21:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/existentia.com.hr\/?p=800"},"modified":"2017-03-30T08:33:54","modified_gmt":"2017-03-30T08:33:54","slug":"vezanost-za-stvari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/existentia.com.hr\/hr\/vezanost-za-stvari\/","title":{"rendered":"Vezanost; za\u0161to je jo\u0161 uvijek nosi\u0161?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Vezanost\"<\/a>Vezanost…za stvari, za osobe, za ishode doga\u0111aja. Mi ljudi volimo se vezivati. Za\u0161to je to problemati\u010dno? Pro\u010ditajte u tekstu Jordana Allena.<\/p>\n

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Dva su zen redovnika putovala zajedno po blatnoj cesti. Padala je gusta ki\u0161a. Do\u0161li su do zavoja, gdje je stajala djevojka u svilenom kimonu, u nemogu\u0107nosti da prije\u0111e raskr\u0161\u0107e radi koli\u010dine blata na cesti.<\/p>\n

Jedan od redovnika podigao je djevojku i prenio je preko ceste.<\/p>\n

Nastavili su put dalje.<\/p>\n

Drugi redovnik nije progovorio dok nisu do\u0161li do hrama. Tada je ve\u0107 kipio od bijesa i nije se mogao suzdr\u017eati. “Mi redovnici ne pribli\u017eavamo se \u017eenama”, rekao je drugom redovniku, “to je opasno. Za\u0161to si to u\u010dinio?”<\/p>\n

“Ja sam tu djevojku ostavio na raskr\u0161\u0107u”, rekao je prvi redovnik. “Za\u0161to je ti jo\u0161 uvijek nosi\u0161 sa sobom?”<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Glavno u\u010denje zen budizma govori nam da vezivanje za stvari uzrokuje patnju. \u010cak i sre\u0107a, prije svega zbog svoje prolaznosti, na kraju rezultira tugom. Dublji mir dostupan nam je samo ako pustimo vezanost. Ne moramo se rije\u0161iti sre\u0107e, samo svoje potrebe i potrage za njom. Tada \u0107emo, i u trenucima sre\u0107e, ja\u010de biti u osje\u0107aju jer ne\u0107emo biti zabrinuti o njenom gubitku.<\/p>\n

Ovo se mo\u017ee primijeniti na sve koncepte, sva pravila, posjedovanja, istine, i koncepte -pa \u010dak i ovo o ne-posjedovanju.<\/p>\n

Otud pri\u010da o dva redovnika. Jedan od njih bio je vezan na pravilo, “\u017dene ne smiju dodirivati mu\u0161karce”, i njegova vezanost uzrokovala je patnju. Drugi redovnik nije bio vezan za to pravilo, pa je u trenutku kad je \u017eeni trebala pomo\u0107 reagirao iz potrebe i u sljede\u0107im trenucima njegova ne-vezanost omogu\u0107ila mu je da jednostavno nastavi dalje.<\/p>\n

Razlika izme\u0111u pri\u010de i stvarnog svijeta u kojem \u017eivimo<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Ova metafora dobro funkcionira jer nitko ne misli da je krivo kad jedno ljudsko bi\u0107e drugom pomogne da prije\u0111e blatnjav put, zapravo svi osje\u0107amo simpatiju prema ljubaznosti prvog redovnika. No u stvarnom \u017eivotu ljudi \u010dine stvari koje smatramo krivima. Ovu je lekciju mnogo te\u017ee primijeniti kada je alegori\u010dko “no\u0161enje \u017eene preko blatne rijeke” primjerice \u017eensko pravo da odlu\u010duju \u0161to se doga\u0111a s njihovim tijelima, dru\u0161tveni problemi i sli\u010dno.<\/p>\n

Kada je rije\u010d o takvim stvarima, mislim da ih je u jednom trenu bitno “odlo\u017eiti”. I u ovom slu\u010daju, na\u0161a vezanost za njih nam stvara patnju.<\/p>\n

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No mo\u017eda je boriti se za promjenu va\u017enije od sre\u0107e. Mo\u017eda je osigurati da alegori\u010dki prvi redovnik ne prekr\u0161i pravilo va\u017enije od patnje. To je u redu, kad je rije\u010d o odlaganju vezanosti to mo\u017ee pomo\u0107i na duge staze. Ono \u0107e omogu\u0107iti izra\u017eavanje uvjerenja, dokazivanje i argumentaciju na na\u010din na koji \u0107e drugi ljudi isto biti u stanju \u010duti, umjesto da kod njih izazove defenzivnu reakciju.<\/div>\n

Otpu\u0161tanje vezanosti i borba za promjenom nisu me\u0111usobno isklju\u010dive stvari. Odlaganje vezanosti tako\u0111er nam omogu\u0107uje da pitamo prava pitanja; pitanja koja omogu\u0107uju ljudima da do\u0111u do svojih vlastitih zaklju\u010daka, umjesto potrebe da ljudi misle isto \u0161to i mi mislimo. To nam omogu\u0107uje slu\u0161anje reakcija bez obrambenog stava; razmontiravanje eksplozivne ljutnje i stvaranje prilike za integraciju povratne reakcije.<\/p>\n

\u0160to zaista zna\u010di otpu\u0161tanje?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Otpu\u0161tanje vezanosti ne zna\u010di indiferentnost. Ovo je \u010desta kriva percepcija svjesnosti, meditacije itd. To zna\u010di otpu\u0161tanje odre\u0111enog rezultata definiranja vrijednosti u svijetu. Ono \u0161to je divno jest da jednom kada se oslobodimo vezanosti, tada mo\u017eemo postati efikasniji nego ikad u kataliziranju promjena koje \u017eelimo vidjeti u svijetu.<\/p>\n

Jordan Myska Allen, Izvor<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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