{"id":2240,"date":"2017-12-14T10:17:57","date_gmt":"2017-12-14T10:17:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/existentia.com.hr\/?p=2240"},"modified":"2024-09-24T15:28:04","modified_gmt":"2024-09-24T13:28:04","slug":"kako-pronaci-svrhu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/existentia.com.hr\/hr\/kako-pronaci-svrhu\/","title":{"rendered":"Kako se prona\u0107i kad izgubite sebe"},"content":{"rendered":"
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@ Tim Guow<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Osje\u0107ate li se neispunjeno, prazno ili isfrustrirano? Mo\u017eda vam va\u0161 unutarnji kompas govori da ste se izgubili. Kako se prona\u0107i kad se izgubimo? Odgovor ima Rebecca Lammersen.<\/p>\n

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Imala sam sve – dom, voljenog supruga, dvije krasne k\u0107eri, financijsku sigurnost. Nisam \u017eeljela ni\u0161ta vi\u0161e. Godinama, takav je \u017eivot bio dobrodo\u0161ao.<\/p>\n

Osje\u0107ala sam se sigurno. No s vremenom, sigurno me prestalo slu\u017eiti. Sigurno je postalo ograni\u010denje, zatvor – zapravo sam bila nesretna. Bila sam prazna.<\/p>\n

Bila sam…potpuno izgubljena, bez ideje kako da do\u0111em doma.<\/p>\n

“Gdje je doma?”<\/em>, po\u010dela sam se pitati. Mogla sam jednako tako sjediti usred Sahare, a ne na svojem be\u017e kau\u010du.<\/p>\n

Moj \u017eivot postao je grozno predvidljiv – znala sam \u0161to \u0107e se sljede\u0107e dogoditi svakog trenutka svakog dana.<\/p>\n

Stagnacija mog \u017eivota uni\u0161tavala je moj duh. Vi\u0161e nisam bila ja, i znala sam da \u0107e put od toga gdje sam do doma biti zastra\u0161uju\u0107 i nesiguran; no u nekom trenutku vi\u0161e nisam imala izbora. Nisam vi\u0161e mogla \u017eivjeti \u017eivotom odvojenim od sebe, pa sam krenula hodati bez ikakve ideje o tome kamo idem.<\/p>\n

To je bilo pred tri i pol godine. Danas, pi\u0161em ovo od ku\u0107e, s istog be\u017e kau\u010da.<\/p>\n

Razlika? Ja, i tisu\u0107u kilometara koje sam od tada proputovala. Tisu\u0107u iskustava koje sam prikupila kako bi me doveli to\u010dno natrag ovdje, u ponovo prona\u0111eni dom. Bilo je mnogo zastra\u0161uju\u0107ih trenutaka, trenutaka u kojima nisam mislila da \u0107u uspjeti. \u010cinila sam pogr\u0161ku za pogre\u0161kom, a one su me lansirale upravo u smjeru u kojem sam i trebala i\u0107i. Ne \u017ealim za i\u010dim, jer su me svi krivi izbori doveli na pravo mjesto, svaki korak puta.<\/p>\n

Ako postoji jedan savjet koji bi dala svakoj osobi, to je neka se izgubi.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

Ponovo prona\u0107i sebe nije ugodan proces, ali ne bi ni trebao biti. Taj period zbunjenosti je katalizator preispitivanja svega, evaluiranja vlastitog \u017eivota i svojeg mjesta u njemu. Kada po\u010dnete pitati pitanja, prona\u0107i \u0107ete odgovore. Samo budite spremni – odgovori ne moraju nu\u017eno biti odgovori koje \u017eelite, no uvijek su to odgovori koje trebate.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Ako se ve\u0107 osje\u0107ate izgubljeno, po\u010dnite pa\u017eljivo slu\u0161ati<\/a>. Va\u0161 duh vri\u0161ti: “Upomo\u0107! Zbunjen\/a sam i izgubljen\/a. Ove trenutne okolnosti me vi\u0161e ne ispunjavaju. Kreni opet tra\u017eiti. Pretra\u017ei svaki kutak. Isprobaj nove stvari. Kada ne uspije\u0161 isprobaj ne\u0161to novo sve dok me ne prona\u0111e\u0161. Tra\u017ei dok se ne krene\u0161 ponovo smijati, dok ne otkrije\u0161 razumijevanje, prihva\u0107anje, sre\u0107u, radost, i najva\u017enije od svega, svrhu.”\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

Kada se osje\u0107ate izgubljeno trebate ponovo nau\u010diti kako prona\u0107i svrhu.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sje\u0107am se kako me opsjedala krivnja \u0161to ne cijenim svoj privilegirani \u017eivot. Tijekom posljednjih par godina, nau\u010dila sam da su moje vanjske okolnosti (bez obzira na to kako savr\u0161enima se \u010dinile) bezna\u010dajne ako su moje interne okolnosti prazne, izgubljene ili bez aspiracija. Ako nemam svrhu, i moj okoli\u0161 \u0107e se \u010diniti kao da je besmislen.<\/p>\n

Kako prona\u0107i svrhu?\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

Napravite ne\u0161to, napravite bilo \u0161to. Napravite bilo \u0161to \u0161to je suprotno od toga \u0161to radite u ovom trenutku.<\/p>\n

Uznemirite se, upla\u0161ite se, ponovo postanite po\u010detnik. Ako mislite da sve znate, prona\u0111ite ne\u0161to o \u010demu ne znate ni\u0161ta, i dobro to nau\u010dite. Promatrajte se kako reagirate.<\/a> Nau\u010dit \u0107ete ne\u0161to novo o sebi; ne samo o svom karakteru, ve\u0107 i o tome \u0161to pali va\u0161e svjetlo<\/a>. Jednom kad na\u0111ete ono \u0161to pali va\u0161e svjetlo, prona\u0161li ste svrhu.<\/p>\n

Kad se stavite u nepoznate situacije, u njih sti\u017eete u svom najkoncentriranijem obliku. U nepoznatom, uvijek \u0107ete susresti sebe<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Najte\u017ei dio ovoga je samo\u0107a. Ne mo\u017eete se osloniti na nikog drugog da \u0107e vam pokazati pravi put. To je solo misija. Cijela poanta tog putovanja jest da to u\u010dinite sami.<\/p>\n

Bez obzira na to \u0161to drugi ka\u017eu, slu\u0161ajte sebe. Bitno je va\u0161e vlastito samo-ohrabrivanje, a ne tu\u0111e obeshrabribanje.<\/p>\n

Ono \u0161to me vodilo ovim putem, bilo je povjerenje. Vjerovala sam da sam uvijek tamo gdje trebam biti i da \u0107u zavr\u0161iti tamo gdje trebam.<\/p>\n

Ovo je va\u0161 jedini \u017eivot. Bila bi tragedija da se nikad ne otkrijete.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A otkriti se ne mo\u017eete ako se ne krenete tra\u017eiti<\/a>. Zato, izgubite se.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

Rebecca Lammersen<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Izvor<\/a><\/p>\n

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