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Svi mi tragamo za ispunjenim \u017eivotom. No \u0161to ako se smisao \u017eivota ne pronalazi, ve\u0107 gradi? I mora li smisao biti nu\u017eno samo jedan? Pro\u010ditajte u \u010dlanku.<\/p>\n

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“Kako da prona\u0111em svoju svrhu?”<\/p>\n

Svi mi tra\u017eimo svrhu \u017eivota. Ve\u0107ini nas \u010dini se da ju nikad nismo prona\u0161li, da smo ju izgubili, ili da na neki na\u010din ne uspijevamo u tom podru\u010dju.<\/p>\n

No usred svog tog straha, tako\u0111er patimo od onoga \u0161to mi se \u010dini kao osnovna zabluda o smislu\u00a0 – zgodno zapakirana u skoro svako pitanje koje dobivam kao autor koji o tome pi\u0161e: “Kako da prona\u0111em svoju svrhu?<\/strong><\/em>” Raskrinkavanje tih zabluda moglo bi nam svima pomo\u0107i da razvijemo jasniju viziju smisla\/\u017eivotne svrhe.<\/p>\n

Zabluda #1: Smisao je ne\u0161to \u0161to treba prona\u0107i<\/strong><\/p>\n

Na dru\u0161tvenim mre\u017eama \u010desto vidim inspirativni citat za koji se smatra da je Mark Twainov: “Dva najva\u017enija dana u na\u0161em \u017eivotu su dan kad smo ro\u0111eni i dan kad doznamo za\u0161to.” Taj citat zgodno prenosi ono \u0161to ja nazivam “holivudskom verzijom” smisla. Kao Neo u Matrixu ili Ratovima zvijezda, svi se mi samo kre\u0107emo kroz \u017eivot sve dok nam sudbina ne polo\u017ei vi\u0161i poziv pred noge.<\/p>\n

To se mo\u017ee dogoditi, bar u nekom obliku. No mislim da je rje\u0111e no \u0161to vjeruemo da jest. Za prosje\u010dnog dvadesetogodi\u0161njaka na fakultetu ili \u010detrdesetogodi\u0161njaka na poslu koji ga ne ispunjava, potraga za smislom \u0107e prije rezultirati frustracijom nego ispunjenjem.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Za postizanje profesionalnog smisla ve\u0107ina nas se treba usmjeriti na to da svoj posao u\u010dini smislenim ili pak da u njemu prona\u0111e smisao.\u00a0 Drugim rije\u010dima, smisao je ne\u0161to \u0161to se gradi, a ne ne\u0161to \u0161to pronalazimo.<\/strong> Skoro svaki posao mo\u017ee sadr\u017eavati izvanredan smisao. Voza\u010di \u0161kolskih buseva nose ogromnu odgovornost – briga za djecu i njihovu sigurnost – i esencijalni su dio osiguravanja da na\u0161a djeca dobiju edukaciju koju trebaju. Medicinske sestre igraju klju\u010dnu ulogu ne samo u lije\u010denju medicinskih stanja, ve\u0107 i u tome da ljude provedu kroz neke od najte\u017eih perioda \u017eivota. Blagajnice mogu biti prijateljski nastrojene i interakcijom uljep\u0161ati ne\u010diji dan – \u0161to je \u010desto o\u010dajni\u010dki potrebno – kao i u\u010diniti ga lo\u0161ijim. U svakom od tih primjera smisao se \u010desto vu\u010de iz onoga \u0161to je smisleno i svrhovito u poslu i iz toga da se posao radi na na\u010din da se poja\u010dava smisao koji tada preuzima centralnu ulogu.<\/strong> Naravno, neki poslovi sami po sebi ja\u010de nude osje\u0107aj smislenosti no mnogi zahtijevaju bar neki svjesni napor da ih se pretvori u tu svrhu za kojom tragamo.<\/p>\n

Zabluda #2: Smisao je samo jedan\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Druga zabluda koju \u010desto \u010dujem jest da se svrhu mo\u017ee izraziti kao jednu stvar. Neki ljudi zaista imaju neku sveobuhvatnu svrhu svog \u017eivota. Majka Tereza je \u017eivjela \u017eivot kako bi slu\u017eila siroma\u0161nima. Samuel Johnson svaki je dio svog bi\u0107a pretakao u pisanje. Marie Curie svoju je energiju posve\u0107ivala svom poslu.<\/p>\n

No \u010dak i te velike li\u010dnosti imale su druge izvore smisla. Slu\u017eenje Majke Tereze siroma\u0161nima bio je samo dio onoga za \u0161to je vjerovala da je vi\u0161i poziv. Curie, Nobelom nagra\u0111ena znanstvenica, je tako\u0111er bila i predana \u017eena i majka (jedna od njenih k\u0107eri, Irene, tako\u0111er je osvojila Nobelovu nagradu). A Johnson je, osim svog pisanja, bio poznat i po velikim humanitarnim gestama unutar svoje zajednice, gdje se \u010desto osobno brinuo za siroma\u0161ne.<\/p>\n

Ve\u0107ina nas \u0107e imati vi\u0161estruke izvore smislenosti u svojim \u017eivotima<\/strong>. \u0160to se mene ti\u010de, ja smisao pronalazim u svojoj djeci, svom braku, svojoj vjeri, svom pisanju, svom poslu i svojoj zajednici. Sli\u010dno tome i za druge postoji vi\u0161e mogu\u0107ih izvora smislenosti. Nije smisao ono za \u010dim tragamo nego vi\u0161e njih – vi\u0161estruki izvori smisla koji nam mogu pomo\u0107i prona\u0107i vrijednost u tome \u0161to radimo i \u017eivimo<\/strong>. Profesionalne obaveze su samo jedan dio tog smisla, i \u010desto na\u0161 posao nije centralan na\u0161oj svrsi nego sredstvo pomaganja drugima, uklju\u010duju\u0107i i na\u0161e obitelji i zajednice. Prihva\u0107anje tih vi\u0161estrukih izvora smisla s nas skida pritisak da moramo prona\u0107i jednu jedinu stvar koja na\u0161em \u017eivotu daje smisao.<\/p>\n

Zabluda #3: Smisao ostaje stabilan tijekom vremena<\/strong><\/p>\n

Danas je normalno da ljudi promijene vi\u0161e karijera u svojim \u017eivota. Primjerice, poznajem jednog \u010dovjeka koji je nedavno napustio vlasni\u010dko mjesto u poduze\u0107u kako bi osnovao startup. Znam jo\u0161 dvoje koji su nedavno napustili svoje poslovne karijere kako bi u\u0161li u politiku. I bez obzira na to mijenjamo li profesionalne smjerove u kojima idemo, ve\u0107ina nas iskusiti \u0107e faze \u017eivota u kojima se na\u0161i izvori smisla mijenjaju – djetinjstvo, period u kojem tek ulazimo u odraslo doba, roditeljstvo i pra\u017enjenje doma od djece, da navedemo neke.<\/p>\n

Ova evolucija u na\u0161em osje\u0107aju smisla nije \u010dudna i ne ukazuje na manjak na\u0161e privr\u017eenosti, ve\u0107 je prirodna i dobra. Ba\u0161 kao \u0161to svi pronalazimo smisao na vi\u0161e mjesta, izvori tog smisla se mogu i obi\u010dno se mijenjaju tijekom vremena.<\/strong> Moj fokus i osje\u0107aj smisla s 20 godina bio je na mnoge na\u010dine radikalno razli\u010dit od onoga kakav je danas, a isto se mo\u017ee re\u0107i i za skoro svakoga koga sretnete.<\/p>\n

Kako prona\u0107i vlastiti smisao? To je krivi na\u010din postavljanja ovog pitanja. Trebali bismo gledati kako da svemu \u0161to radimo damo svrhu, kako da dozvolimo vi\u0161estrukim izvorima smisla koji \u0107e se prirodno razviti u na\u0161im \u017eivotima i kako da budemo pomireni s tim da \u0107e se oni mijenjati tijekom vremena. Dekonstruiranje onoga \u0161to mislimo pod “smislom” ili “svrhom” mo\u017ee nam omogu\u0107iti da bolje razumijemo njegovu prisutnost i ulogu u na\u0161im \u017eivotima.<\/p>\n

John Coleman\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

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