{"id":1950,"date":"2017-11-06T07:14:33","date_gmt":"2017-11-06T07:14:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/existentia.com.hr\/?p=1950"},"modified":"2017-11-06T07:21:20","modified_gmt":"2017-11-06T07:21:20","slug":"sreca-u-budizmu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/existentia.com.hr\/hr\/sreca-u-budizmu\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0160to je sre\u0107a u budizmu i kako nam mo\u017ee pomo\u0107i da budemo sretniji"},"content":{"rendered":"

Za\u0161to su neki ljudi sretni, a neki nisu? \u0160to je sre\u0107a u budizmu? Dzongsar Jamyang Khyentse promi\u0161lja koncept sre\u0107e-\u00a0 i poma\u017ee nam da budemo sretniji.<\/p>\n

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Izvor: Pixabay<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Definicije sre\u0107e i patnje iznimno variraju, \u010dak i unutar relativno male ljudske domene. Definicija “patnje” za neke je definicija “sre\u0107e” za neke, i obratno. Za neke ljude biti sretan zna\u010di samo uspjeti pre\u017eivjeti, za druge biti sretan zna\u010di posjedovati sedamsto pari cipela. Neki ljudi pronalaze sre\u0107u u tome da si tetoviraju portret Davida Beckhama na bicepse. Ponekad je cijena ne\u010dije sre\u0107e tu\u0111i \u017eivot, kao kad ne\u010dija sre\u0107a ovisi o tome da se do\u010depa peraje morskog psa, ili bedra pili\u0107a ili penisa tigra. Neki nalaze gla\u0111enje pti\u010djim perom eroti\u010dnim, dok drugi preferiraju bi\u010deve i lance. Kralj Edward VII radije je o\u017eenio razvedenu Amerikanku nego da nosi krunu mo\u0107nog britanskog carstva.<\/p>\n

\u010cak i kod pojedinca, dakle, definicije “sre\u0107e” i “patnje” variraju. Neobavezni trenutak flerta mo\u017ee se promijeniti kad jedna osoba po\u017eeli ne\u0161to vi\u0161e; nada se pretvara u strah. Kad ste dijete na pla\u017ei, sre\u0107a je gra\u0111enje kula od pijeska. Kad ste tinejd\u017eer, sre\u0107a je gledanje djevojaka u bikinijima i golih prsa momaka koji surfaju. Kod sredovje\u010dnih ljudi, sre\u0107a su novac i karijera. A kada ste u kasnim osamdesetima, sre\u0107a postaje skupljanje kerami\u010dkih posudica za sol.\u00a0 Za mnoge, zadovoljavanje tih beskrajnih i vje\u010dno promjenjivih definicija sre\u0107e predstavlja “smisao \u017eivota”.<\/p>\n

Mnogi od nas u\u010de definicije “sre\u0107e” i “patnje” od dru\u0161tva u kojem \u017eive; dru\u0161tveni poredak diktira kako mjerimo zadovoljstvo. To je stvar zajedni\u010dkih vrijednosti. Dva ljudska bi\u0107a sa suprotnih strana svijeta mogu do\u017eivljavati identi\u010dne osje\u0107aje – zadovoljstvo, ga\u0111enje, strah – utemeljena na kontradiktornim kulturnim indikatorima sre\u0107e.<\/strong> Noge pili\u0107a su delikatesa za Kineze, dok Francuzi vole mazati rasprsnute jetre gusaka na svoj tost. Zamislite kako bi svijet izgledao da kapitalizam nikad nije postojao i svaka nacija i pojedinac stvarno \u017eive Mao Tse-tungovu pragmati\u010dnu komunisti\u010dku filozofiju; bili bismo savr\u0161eno sretni bez shopping centara, bez lijepih automobila, bez lanaca za brzu prehranu, bez natjecanja, bez velikog jaza izme\u0111u bogatih i siroma\u0161nih, sa zdravstvenom njegom za sve – i bicikli bi bili cijenjeniji od velikih automobila.<\/p>\n

Umjesto toga, u\u010di nas se \u0161to da \u017eelimo…Ova navika u\u010denja prema kojoj grupne standarde prihva\u0107amo kao svoje vlastite stvara se u vrlo ranoj dobi.\u00a0<\/strong> U prvom razredu vidimo da sva djeca imaju odre\u0111enu vrstu pernice (ili u dana\u0161nje doba, pametnog telefona). Razvijemo “potrebu” da i mi imamo jednu, da budemo kao svi ostali. Ka\u017eemo to svojoj majci, i na\u0161a sre\u0107a ovisi o tome ho\u0107e li nam ona kupiti jednu takvu pernicu. Ovo se nastavlja i u na\u0161u odraslu dob. Susjed ima veliki LCD ili novi terenac – i odmah i mi \u017eelimo jedan takav, samo jo\u0161 ve\u0107i. Natjecanje i \u017eelja za onim \u0161to posjeduju drugi postoji na kulturalnoj razini…<\/p>\n

I na kulturnoj i individualnoj razini, preuzmimamo strane ili eksterne metode postizanja sre\u0107e i prevazila\u017eenja patnje, rijetko shva\u0107aju\u0107i da nam te metode \u010desto donose upravo suprotno od \u017eeljenog rezultata. Op\u0107enito govore\u0107i, imati ne\u0161to novaca u banci, udobno zakloni\u0161te, dovoljno hrane za pojesti, pristojne cipele, i ostale bazi\u010dne udobnosti jesu ono \u0161to nas \u010dini sretnima. S druge strane, indijski sadhui i putuju\u0107i pustinjaci Tibeta smatraju sami sebe sretnima jer nemaju potrebu za privjeskom za klju\u010deve – ne osje\u0107aju strah da \u0107e im netko ukrasti imovinu jer ne posjeduju ni\u0161ta \u0161to bi se trebalo zaklju\u010dati.<\/p>\n

\u0160to iz ove budisti\u010dke kontemplacije mo\u017eemo nau\u010diti? To da je sre\u0107a promjenjiva – ono \u0161to nas u nekom trenutku mo\u017ee \u010diniti sretnima, u drugom nas mo\u017ee po\u010deti optere\u0107ivati. Tako\u0111er, da je ona djelomi\u010dno, dakle, i stvar perspektive.<\/strong> Poku\u0161ajmo se sjetiti toga kad sljede\u0107i put radi ne\u010dega budemo nezadovoljni.<\/p>\n

Izvor: “\u0160to vas ne \u010dini budistom”, <\/strong>Dzongsar Jamyang Khyentse, Boston i London: Shambala, 2011.<\/strong> <\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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