{"id":1785,"date":"2018-01-30T09:22:55","date_gmt":"2018-01-30T09:22:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/existentia.com.hr\/?p=1785"},"modified":"2018-01-30T10:44:27","modified_gmt":"2018-01-30T10:44:27","slug":"mudri-citati-irvina-yaloma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/existentia.com.hr\/hr\/mudri-citati-irvina-yaloma\/","title":{"rendered":"10 mudrih citata Irvina Yaloma"},"content":{"rendered":"

Irvin Yalom u svojoj je dugoj karijeri napisao mnogo knjiga u kojima se bavi izazovima \u017eivota.\u00a0 Mudri citati Irvina Yaloma inspiriraju i poti\u010du nas da stanemo i promislimo o svom \u017eivotu.<\/p>\n

“\u017divot je grozna stvar. Odlu\u010dio sam provesti svoj \u017eivot razmi\u0161ljaju\u0107i o njemu. “<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ovo je stara pri\u010da, poznata jo\u0161 od Sokrata koji je rekao – “Neistra\u017een \u017eivot nije vrijedan \u017eivljenja.” Drugim rije\u010dima, dobro je malo preispitati vlastiti \u017eivot – ako ni\u0161ta drugo, a onda bar tu i tamo.<\/p>\n

“Jedna stvar u koju sam siguran jest ta da je va\u017eno ne dopustiti svom \u017eivotu da vas \u017eivi. Ina\u010de, zavr\u0161it \u0107ete u \u010detrdesetima osje\u0107aju\u0107i se kao da niste uop\u0107e \u017eivjeli. \u0160to sam nau\u010dio? Mo\u017eda da trebam \u017eivjeti sad, kako s pedeset ne bih gledao natrag na \u010detrdesete sa \u017ealjenjem.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Te\u0161ko je nekad slijediti ovaj put mudrosti i \u017eivjeti na ovaj na\u010din kad se \u010dovjek suo\u010dava s egzistencijalnim problemima, kakvi su \u010desto tipi\u010dni za hrvatsku, ali i druge stvarnosti te \u017eivote koji se ne odvijaju u prostoru financijske ili statusne privilegiranosti. No treba stalno iznova nalaziti one male prostore slobode, u kojima se mo\u017ee disati i (pre)\u017eivjeti.<\/p>\n

\"mudri<\/a><\/p>\n

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“Ako se popnemo dovoljno visoko, dose\u0107i \u0107emo visinu s koje tragi\u010dno prestaje izgledati tragi\u010dno.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Napokon, iako nas na\u0161 narcizam navodi da vjerujemo da smo centar svijeta, zapravo smo samo malo zrnce pra\u0161ine u golemosti svemira…i stoga, ako se malo izmaknemo iz svoje osobne perspektive koja je uronjena u neki problem – sve prestaje izgledati\u00a0 tragi\u010dno.<\/p>\n

“Sada vjerujem da se strahovi ne ra\u0111aju iz mraka, ve\u0107 su prije poput zvijezda – uvijek prisutni, no sakriveni od dnevne svjetlosti. <\/span><\/span>“<\/strong><\/p>\n

Drugim rije\u010dima, nije stvar u tome da se oni koji idu naprijed ne boje. Stvar je u tome da svoj strah prevladavaju. Kao u naslovu one knjige – osjeti strah, i svejedno to u\u010dini.<\/p>\n

“Kad bi vam se Epikur obratio, savjetovao bi vam da pojednostavnite \u017eivot. Rekao bi vam sljede\u0107e: “Ekipa, va\u0161ih potreba je malo, one su lako ostvarive, i sa svakom nu\u017enom patnjom mo\u017ee se lako nositi. Nemojte si komplicirati \u017eivot streme\u0107i tako trivijalnim ciljevima poput bogatstva i slave; oni su neprijatelji ATARAXIE. Slava se, recimo, sastoji od mi\u0161ljenja drugih i zahtijeva \u017eivot prema tu\u0111im standardima. Kako bismo postigli i odr\u017eali slavu, mora nam se svi\u0111ati \u0161to se svi\u0111a drugima i moramo bojkotirati \u0161to i drugi bojkotiraju. Dakle, slavan \u017eivot ili \u017eivot u politici? Bje\u017eite od toga. A bogatstvo? Izbjegavajte ga! To je zamka. \u0160to vi\u0161e dobivamo, to vi\u0161e \u017eelimo, i to je dublja na\u0161a tuga kad nisu zadovoljenja na\u0161a htijenja. Slu\u0161ajte me; ako \u017eelite sre\u0107u, nemojte gubiti \u017eivot na borbu za one stvari koje vam zaista ne trebaju”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Poput savjeta iz budizma ili zen budizma, Irvin Yalom nam u ovom mudrom citatu savjetuje da se ne hvatamo za ovozemaljske stvari, koje mo\u017eemo izgubiti jednako lako kao \u0161to smo ih i dobili. Um uvijek \u017eeli vi\u0161e. Trik je ne hvatati se za stvari. Lak\u0161e re\u0107i no u\u010diniti, ali uvijek treba probati.<\/p>\n

Tako\u0111er, dobro je s vremena na vrijeme staviti stvari u perspektivu. Egzistencijalizam uvijek zagovara suo\u010davanje sa smr\u0107u kao najbolje sredstvo za postizanje perspektive. \u0160to \u0107e vam zaista biti bitno kad budete umirali?<\/p>\n

“Opsesija ljubavlju slu\u017ei kao odvla\u010denje pa\u017enje od bolnijih misli.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Jo\u0161 jedna mudrost Irvina Yaloma je ideja da ponekad ono \u0161to izgleda kao ljubavna opsesija zapravo predstavlja samo na\u010din da se pobjegne od drugih stvari koje nas mu\u010de…od nezadovoljstva vlastitim \u017eivotom, primjerice, ili ne\u010deg drugog \u0161to nam u \u017eivotu fali. Ljubavna fiksacija mo\u017ee biti simboli\u010dka zamjena za to \u0161to nam nedostaje u \u017eivotu.<\/p>\n

“Zanimljiv misaoni eksperiment…Nietzscheova poruka bila je da \u017eivimo \u017eivot na takav na\u010din da bismo isti taj \u017eivot bili voljni ponavljati zauvijek.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Na ovaj mudri citat stvarno nije potrebno ni\u0161ta dodavati.<\/p>\n

“Osje\u0107aj smisla \u017eivota je izveden, ne mo\u017ee se do njega do\u0107i direktno: smisao \u017eivota je uvijek izvedeni fenomen koji se stvara kad sebe transcendiramo, kad sebe zaboravimo i kad uronimo u nekog (ili ne\u0161to) izvan nas samih.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kao \u0161to mnogi egzistencijalisti redovito nagla\u0161avaju, osje\u0107aj smislenosti u \u017eivotu ne posti\u017ee se direktno ve\u0107 indirektno – kad se posvetimo ne\u010demu ili nekome izvan nas samih.<\/p>\n

“Pitam se mogu li ikad igdje biti doma, jer dom nije mjesto – to je stanje uma. Stvarno biti doma zna\u010di osje\u0107ati se “doma” u vlastitoj ko\u017ei…mo\u017eda ste u svom \u017eivotu tra\u017eili dom na krivim mjestima.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mo\u017eda smo u \u017eivotu lutali tra\u017ee\u0107i dom na raznim mjestima, ne \u010dak nu\u017eno fizi\u010dkim, ve\u0107 idejnim ili simboli\u010dkim…no tek kad se budemo osje\u0107ali”doma” u vlastitoj ko\u017ei, tada \u0107emo se osje\u0107ati dobro svugdje.<\/p>\n

“Moramo pri\u010dati o sebi i svojim problemima, jer \u0107e na\u0161 \u017eivot, na\u0161a egzistencija, uvijek biti povezana sa smrti, ljubav \u0107e uvijek biti povezana s gubitkom, sloboda sa strahom, a rast sa separacijom. Mi smo, svi mi, u ovome zajedno.”<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Irvin Yalom rekao je sve!<\/p>\n

Preuzeto <\/em>iz knjiga Irvina Yaloma: Schopenhauer’s Cure, Spinoza Problem, Theory and Practice of Group Psychotherapy, The gift of Therapy, Love’s Executioner<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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