{"id":1241,"date":"2016-08-18T11:57:45","date_gmt":"2016-08-18T11:57:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/existentia.com.hr\/?p=1241"},"modified":"2017-04-01T12:51:47","modified_gmt":"2017-04-01T12:51:47","slug":"kako-biti-sretan-u-zivotu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/existentia.com.hr\/hr\/kako-biti-sretan-u-zivotu\/","title":{"rendered":"Jorge Bucay; kako biti sretan u \u017eivotu?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Kako biti sretan u \u017eivotu? Jorge Bucay donosi pri\u010du o traga\u010du koji na neo\u010dekivani na\u010din nalazi odgovor na to pitanje.<\/p>\n

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“Ono \u0161to tra\u017eite, tra\u017ei vas”<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Rumi<\/em> <\/strong><\/p>\n

Ovo je pri\u010da o \u010dovjeku kojeg nazivam traga\u010dem. Traga\u010d je netko tko ne\u0161to tra\u017ei, ali ne nu\u017eno i onaj tko to nalazi. Niti nu\u017eno zna \u0161to tra\u017ei. To je jednostavno osoba za koju je \u017eivot potraga.<\/p>\n

Jednog dana, traga\u010d je osjetio da bi trebao po\u0107i u grad Kammir. Nau\u010dio je slu\u0161ati te osje\u0107aje koje su dolazili iz nepoznatog dijela njega samog, pa je sve ostavio i krenuo na put. Nakon dva dana hodanja po pra\u0161njavim cestama, u daljini je primijetio grad Kammir. Kad je skoro ve\u0107 bio na ulazu u grad, brijeg koji je bio s desne strane puta zapeo mu je za pogled. Bio je to divan brijeg prekireven raslinjem i drve\u0107em, pun ptica i cvije\u0107a te u potpunosti opasan nekom vrstom male drvene ograde. Bron\u010dana vrata pozivala su na ulaz.<\/p>\n

Traga\u010d je odjednom zaboravio na grad i prepustio se isku\u0161enju da malkice odmori na tom mjestu. Pre\u0161ao je prag i polagano po\u010deo hodati kroz bijelo kamenje koje je bilo nabacano me\u0111u drve\u0107em. Poput leptira je odmarao svoj pogled na svakom detalju ovog \u017eivopisnog prizora. Njegove o\u010di bile su o\u010di traga\u010da, i mo\u017eda je zato na jednom od kamena uo\u010dio ovaj natpis:<\/p>\n

Abdul Tareg, \u017eivio 8 godina, 6 mjeseci, 2 tjedna i 3 dana.<\/p>\n

Bio je malko potresen kad je shvatio da kamen nije samo kamen ve\u0107 nadgrobni kamen. Rastu\u017eio se dok je razmi\u0161ljao koliko je mlad bio dje\u010dak koji je tu pokopan.
\nGledaju\u0107i uokolo \u010dovjek je uo\u010dio da i sljede\u0107i kamen na sebi nosi natpis. Pro\u010ditao je i taj:<\/p>\n

Yamir Kalib, \u017eivio 5 godina, 8 mjeseci i 3 tjedna.<\/p>\n

To ga je poprili\u010dno \u0161okiralo. Ovo prekrasno mjesto bilo je groblje, a svaki kamen – nadgrobni spomenik.
\nPo\u010deo je \u010ditati natpise na njima, jednog po jednog. Svi su imali sli\u010dne natpise, ime i to\u010dno odre\u0111eno trajanje \u017eivota preminulog. No u\u017easnut je shvatio da trajanje najdu\u017eeg \u017eivota od prisutnih nije prelazilo 11 godina. Preplavljen tugom, sjeo je i po\u010deo plakati.<\/p>\n

U me\u0111uvremenu, grobar koji je bio zadu\u017een za groblje prolazio je i u\u0161ao unutra. Neko je vrijeme gledao \u010dovjeka kako pla\u010de u ti\u0161ini, a tada ga je upitao pla\u010de li za \u010dlanom obitelji. Ne, ne – odgovorio je traga\u010d. \u0160to se dogodilo s ovim ljudima, i kakve se to u\u017easne stvari odvijaju tu u ovom gradu? Za\u0161to je ovdje pokopano toliko mnogo mrtve djece? Kakva je to grozna kletva ba\u010dena na ove ljude, koja je do ovog dovela?<\/p>\n

Stari se grobar nasmijao i rekao: – Mo\u017eete se smiriti. Ne postoji nikakva kletva. U ovom gradu postoji jedan stari obi\u010daj. Kad mlad \u010dovjek napuni 15 godina, njegovi mu roditelji kupe bilje\u017enicu poput ove ovdje koju imam obje\u0161enu oko svog vrata. I na\u0161a tradicija nala\u017ee da od tog trenutka, svaki put kad u ne\u010demu jako u\u017eivate, otvorite knji\u017enicu i zapi\u0161ete:<\/p>\n

Na lijevu stranu, u \u010demu ste u\u017eivali
\nNa desnu, koliko je u\u017eivanje trajalo
\nUpoznate djevojku, zaljubite se u nju<\/a>. Koliko dugo je trajala ta velika strast i u\u017eitak? Tjedan? Dva? Tri i pol tjedna?
\nI nakon toga…uzbu\u0111enost oko prvog poljupca, taj prekrasan prvi poljubac, koliko je trajao? Je li to bio poljubac od pola minute? Dva dana? Tjedna?
\nA ro\u0111enje va\u0161eg prvog djeteta?
\nA brak va\u0161ih prijatelja?
\nA putovanje koje ste dugo pri\u017eeljikvali?
\nA susret s bratom koji se vratio\u00a0 iz inozemstva?
\nKoliko je svaki od tih trenutaka trajao? Satima? Danima?<\/p>\n

I tako mi zapi\u0161emo u bilje\u017enicu svaki put kad u\u017eivamo u svakom trenutku.<\/p>\n

Kad netko umre, na\u0161a je tradicija da bilje\u017enicu otvorimo i zbrojimo svo to zapisano vrijeme. I tada ga zapi\u0161emo na nadgrobni spomenik. Jer to je, za nas, jedino vrijeme kad smo zaista \u017eivjeli.<\/p>\n

Jorge Bucay<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Izvor<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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